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When should daters reveal their salaries? Perspectives from 20-somethings in New York
Overview
A BBC News report explores when couples should discuss salaries and finances while dating, featuring perspectives from various 20-somethings in New York City and a relationship coach.
Key points
- Some people in relationships do not know their partner's exact salary, often relying on lifestyle cues instead.
- Several daters believe salary discussions are only appropriate once a relationship is official or serious.
- Asking about salary on an early date is viewed by some as a red flag.
- Dating and relationship coach Kate Mansfield suggests discussing spending, saving, and financial independence early on to determine compatibility.